Originally Posted by: genocidal king I'd imagine it would have been simply Bikki's family having a look at her computer. She'll have always been signed in, like most of us.
Bang on.
I'm Bikki's brother. I know Bikki spent a lot of time on this forum and considered many of you to be dear friends, even though you never met. Since you were so important to her, I thought it'd be only fitting to extend the funeral invitation to you guys. It's not organised yet, but I'll keep you posted.
Also, I've been reading this thread, thank you so much for all your kind words. It's a great comfort to us to see how she was so dearly loved by so many people. Particular thanks to the person who started the thread, I had hoped our message would reach this forum as I know you will be grieving with us at this difficult time.
Obviously we are devastated so I can't make any promises, but I will make an effort to come back here and answer any questions you may have. Bikki loved this forum, so I believe this is what she would want.
Words cannot say how much Bikki meant to me and to all of us. We are so much poorer for having lost her, but the strength and spirit she showed in her time with us will see us through and help us to honour and celebrate the life of a unique and wonderful person. She alone has shaped our lives more than any other, we are who we are because of her and she will never leave our hearts.
Much love to all of you. Please pray for us, her family, as we come to terms with this tragic and sudden loss and pray with thanks for her life, how she loved, was loved, and the privilege it is to have known her.