How do people tell if their good looking or not? Like I have genuinely no clue. Some people say I'm hot and some people say I'm not. And there was a hot girl at a party tonight, so how do you tell if your good looking enough for them ?!

Obviously, that can vary with people's own personal taste and blah blah blah. I know this is becoming a cliche now, but to me personality is what makes someone attractive. However, looks play a role hand in hand with it.

I am happily in a relationship with someone who isn't all that attractive according to people's standards, and people have even told me that "I could do better", but that's the kind of thing that pisses me off, but anyway, his personality shines so bright, and that makes him attractive to me. But yeah :D

The thing is you wont know if you're good enough for her.. until you make the move. However making that move with an intimidatingly beautiful girl can be extremely difficult.

Hahaa this was once I'd come home actually I hadn't just popped off at a party to quickly go and post on TRGSGSFMF.

Ahh fair enough, yeah I know it is @McKenzie I just wondered what the signs are like there must be some things girls do that mean "ENTERME".

Are you Forkboy or something?

I know he's not Forkboy XD it's just a joke, cause Forkboy is the one that always makes the more obscene comments.

There's some sort of urban legend of a training that will allow you to pretty much get everyone you want. Me and my frieds always say we're going to try, but after replacing alcohol with weed and acid, sex is not something that important to us when we go out.
Enough talking, the objective is to get 50 'nos' in one night...but you must try really hard to get the person, and if she/he says yes the countdown goes to zero and you have to start it again. I supposed it gets you more relaxed when approaching someone after that, because after so many nos you kinda stop caring that much you got dumped :p
Well, it's something that can help.

this. Got a lovely girls phone number at a concert this way. Wasnt trying and didnt even want her number.course if i Knew then the direction My life was going to take....

Maybe they did want to fuck you ?

Well here's how one night ended, after this one girl was pestering me all night about my not drinking. My incredibly drunk friend is going "you guys are good together, you should hang out sometime" and both of us are like "nah, that's alright." Because the conversation consisted ENTIRELY of me explaining why I wasn't drinking.

I assume it's me, because I look all around and everyone is having casual conversations and laughing and having fun, but whenever anyone tries to talk to me it's awkward as fuck. It's because I'm a boring weirdo.

Using "I'm not drinking" as a way to get someone to buy you a drink and start a conversation, that just seems like a real desperate ploy for attention. Fuck that. Fuck any of that shit.