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tension101 wrote:xNightsidex wrote:tension101 wrote:xNightsidex wrote:I really lose a lot of respect for people who can't come out of the closet and face who they are, just because their friends may judge them.
*Sigh* Here's the thing: He's already been kicked out of his home because he broke it to his parents that he's bisexual. He's currently staying with his girlfriend. He is cheating on his GF to be with me, which I keep telling him is wrong, but he wont break up with her, because he needs to live with her. I told him that my parents would let him live here, which I can't promise, because my parents cant really support one other person. So, If anyone ever finds out, he'll have no place to live, which is why I need to keep it a secret, thus marking my MySpace status as, "single." I still see how this would be no excuse though, so I'm sorry. :( You could be a better person and not force him to cheat on his girlfriend? Sounds like he doesn't really appreciate his girlfriend's hospitality either if he's cheating on her. Beautiful. Of course he appriciates it, thats why we cant tell anyone I know in person. That doesn't befit the fact he's cheating on her though. Or the fact you're letting him. Have some pride. |
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xNightsidex wrote:tension101 wrote:xNightsidex wrote:tension101 wrote:xNightsidex wrote:I really lose a lot of respect for people who can't come out of the closet and face who they are, just because their friends may judge them.
*Sigh* Here's the thing: He's already been kicked out of his home because he broke it to his parents that he's bisexual. He's currently staying with his girlfriend. He is cheating on his GF to be with me, which I keep telling him is wrong, but he wont break up with her, because he needs to live with her. I told him that my parents would let him live here, which I can't promise, because my parents cant really support one other person. So, If anyone ever finds out, he'll have no place to live, which is why I need to keep it a secret, thus marking my MySpace status as, "single." I still see how this would be no excuse though, so I'm sorry. :( You could be a better person and not force him to cheat on his girlfriend? Sounds like he doesn't really appreciate his girlfriend's hospitality either if he's cheating on her. Beautiful. Of course he appriciates it, thats why we cant tell anyone I know in person. That doesn't befit the fact he's cheating on her though. Or the fact you're letting him. Have some pride. Look, I tell him to either breakup with her and stay with me, or stop cheating with me and stay with her. He's in a tough predicement, because, HE doesnt know what to do. |
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tension101 wrote:Look, I tell him to either breakup with her and stay with me, or stop cheating with me and stay with her. He's in a tough predicement, because, HE doesnt know what to do.
Well he does know to do you... |
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troymazing wrote:tension101 wrote:Look, I tell him to either breakup with her and stay with me, or stop cheating with me and stay with her. He's in a tough predicement, because, HE doesnt know what to do.
Well he does know to do you... Great point. |
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Get a spine and do something yourself then. If you value him as a friend, don't let him potentially fuck up with his girlfriend and lose his supposed only place to stay.
In fact, you've already fucked up by allowing this to happen really, so it'll be on your head that you'd done it either way. |
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xNightsidex wrote:Get a spine and do something yourself then. If you value him as a friend, don't let him potentially fuck up with his girlfriend and lose his supposed only place to stay.
In fact, you've already fucked up by allowing this to happen really, so it'll be on your head that you'd done it either way. Right... Okay, time to make a phone call...  |
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tension101 wrote:xNightsidex wrote:Get a spine and do something yourself then. If you value him as a friend, don't let him potentially fuck up with his girlfriend and lose his supposed only place to stay.
In fact, you've already fucked up by allowing this to happen really, so it'll be on your head that you'd done it either way. Right... Okay, time to make a phone call... Have fun with that.. |
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Get this...
HE'LL THINK ABOUT IT.
dude, that's bullshit. I said, "You fucking think about it then, make the right fucking decision, because if you fuck this up, your gonna be a fuckin bum, man." and I hung up. Shit. |
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tension101 wrote:Get this...
HE'LL THINK ABOUT IT.
dude, that's bullshit. I said, "You fucking think about it then, make the right fucking decision, because if you fuck this up, your gonna be a fuckin bum, man." and I hung up. Shit. The correct and eloquent manner I would have taken to this would be to phone up the person and say "I am no longer going to see you as I am taking the moral high-ground. You are frankly flawed for betraying the trust of the only person you have and while living under her roof." I thought that was relatively mutual myself, but perhaps not. Edited by user 17 August 2009 13:19:21(UTC)
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tension101 wrote:Get this...
HE'LL THINK ABOUT IT.
dude, that's bullshit. I said, "You fucking think about it then, make the right fucking decision, because if you fuck this up, your gonna be a fuckin bum, man." and I hung up. Shit. That sounded like a very straight conversation... |
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xNightsidex wrote:tension101 wrote:Get this...
HE'LL THINK ABOUT IT.
dude, that's bullshit. I said, "You fucking think about it then, make the right fucking decision, because if you fuck this up, your gonna be a fuckin bum, man." and I hung up. Shit. The correct and eloquent manner I would have taken to this would be to phone up the person and say "I am no longer going to see you as I am taking the moral high-ground. You are frankly flawed for betraying the trust of the only person you have and while living under her roof." I thought that was relatively mutual myself, but perhaps not. Pretty much what I said, and we talked about it, and he said Hell think about-- *phone rings* ... Okay, well, he made the right decision, at least. Starting today, I am single again. Well, rather be single than betraying one of my best friends. |
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troymazing wrote:tension101 wrote:Get this...
HE'LL THINK ABOUT IT.
dude, that's bullshit. I said, "You fucking think about it then, make the right fucking decision, because if you fuck this up, your gonna be a fuckin bum, man." and I hung up. Shit. That sounded like a very straight conversation... Suddap! I was mad. lol |
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tension101 wrote:xNightsidex wrote:tension101 wrote:Get this...
HE'LL THINK ABOUT IT.
dude, that's bullshit. I said, "You fucking think about it then, make the right fucking decision, because if you fuck this up, your gonna be a fuckin bum, man." and I hung up. Shit. The correct and eloquent manner I would have taken to this would be to phone up the person and say "I am no longer going to see you as I am taking the moral high-ground. You are frankly flawed for betraying the trust of the only person you have and while living under her roof." I thought that was relatively mutual myself, but perhaps not. Pretty much what I said, and we talked about it, and he said Hell think about-- *phone rings* ... Okay, well, he made the right decision, at least. Starting today, I am single again. Well, rather be single than betraying one of my best friends. Yet it took this long, and a completely random gay man off the the internet, to make you come to this realisation? Society is not what it's used to be. I'm going to bed, as is probably Elliot. |
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Awhhhhh now I'll be all bored :( |
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An abrupt change of mind :| Still, if that's what really happened, good on you for ending it, I guess (:
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xNightsidex wrote:tension101 wrote:xNightsidex wrote:tension101 wrote:Get this...
HE'LL THINK ABOUT IT.
dude, that's bullshit. I said, "You fucking think about it then, make the right fucking decision, because if you fuck this up, your gonna be a fuckin bum, man." and I hung up. Shit. The correct and eloquent manner I would have taken to this would be to phone up the person and say "I am no longer going to see you as I am taking the moral high-ground. You are frankly flawed for betraying the trust of the only person you have and while living under her roof." I thought that was relatively mutual myself, but perhaps not. Pretty much what I said, and we talked about it, and he said Hell think about-- *phone rings* ... Okay, well, he made the right decision, at least. Starting today, I am single again. Well, rather be single than betraying one of my best friends. Yet it took this long, and a completely random gay man off the the internet, to make you come to this realisation? Society is not what it's used to be. I'm going to bed, as is probably Elliot. Ive been thinking about this for a long time, and if he was gonna break up with me, it would have been the right decision, but you just helped me get the nerve to talk about this. Edited by user 17 August 2009 13:33:17(UTC)
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