Over sized or undersized?






or






also...

1,2, or 3




I pick the top two on the first question and 2 or 3 on the second.

Which do you think is healthier, being dramatically underweight or being dramatically overweight? What are you opinions on both kind of people? Which one would you date?

Edited by user 08 December 2010 12:00:36(UTC)  | Reason: Not specified

I agree, thats why I added the bit at the bottom. I didnt mean in such a superficial way but when you see a very skinny person on the street or a thicker or even overweight person whats the first thought you think, which do you find attractive as well but more to it than that.

I agree with you though I'm nore real sure about the f*ck part yet...lol Kelly Clarkson over Taylor Swift any day.

Yes...just think...me too.... perhaps this wasn't a good idea for a thread after all.


We agree on something else now too though...

First thing I look at is to see if shes smiling a lot, then her clothes to see if shes a little weird (in a good way) and then her body and that I will admit is usually the main thing in the end but at least it starts with whats important.

Here is a better question, do you think straight males minds are wired to eventually go to the body as a game changer even when you really think her personality is the most important?

But is it? Many third world countries have women and men baring everything in sight and it doesn't seem to bother anyone. Could it be simply because we have been raised in a society setting us to think that way with advertisements and celebrities?

But by being raised that its wrong, does that again make us want it even more? In a sort of revolt way?

Lol, I've been asking all the questions.

Hmm, been interesting so far. Anyone else?

Physically speaking, I'm really attracted to incredibly skinny, shorter and younger guys. If they look like junkies, hell yeah, it turns me on.
Can't say much about girls, I've only been attracted to one girl on my life and it was because of her brains, couldn't care less about the body.
But I prefer the mind over the body anytime. The guy can be the most handsome man in the world, but if he's a jerk he'll be really ugly to my eyes, and vice versa.
Unfortunately in the place I live people care too much about a person's body. If you're overweight, people make fun of you and it's really really hard to find someone, specially guys, that would ever agree on kissing you. I live that reality.
Beauty is too subjective to discuss. But I do believe the media has a crucial role on setting up someone's sexual interest.

There's a middle-ground, and as usual it's the healthy option. Me, I'm slightly podgy round the waist and scrawny in the chest. I should work out. But I'm prone to laziness and I love food. Fortunately I'm in relative equilibrium, I don't really gain weight. I put it down to all the water I drink - probably also the only reason I've never had any metal fillings. I should go to a gym or something, but those places are ridiculously expensive.