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TP		#21 Posted : 01 August 2009 04:27:46(UTC)
Rank: Advanced Member Groups: Registered Joined: 31/07/2009(UTC) Posts: 317 Location: Milwaukee		bikz wrote: TP wrote: the definition of loner is being alone. Doesn't mean you're sad or happy, just means you're alone. No. The definition of "alone" is being alone. The definition of "loner" is being a person who has a preference for being alone. Okay, so they are alone. Doesn't mean they are happy or they are sad for that matter. Just means they are alone.
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Raphaela		#22 Posted : 01 August 2009 04:31:00(UTC)
Rank: Advanced Member Groups: Registered Joined: 11/02/2009(UTC) Posts: 2,166 Location: A place with iguanas Thanks: 37 times Was thanked: 99 time(s) in 63 post(s)		To me being alone doesn't mean to be in a room with other 934854905 people. There can be this number of people on the same room with me, but if nobody talks to me longer than "what time is it?", and I don't like the person enough to continue the conversation, I'm alone.
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bikz		#23 Posted : 01 August 2009 04:31:35(UTC)
Rank: Advanced Member Groups: Moderators, Registered Joined: 11/02/2009(UTC) Posts: 6,039 Location: Bikiribati Thanks: 129 times Was thanked: 94 time(s) in 78 post(s)		TP wrote: Okay, so they are alone. Doesn't mean they are happy or they are sad for that matter. Just means they are alone. .... and being alone doesn't make this person a loner, it just makes them alone. If the hypothetical person whom we discuss here is a loner, it means that they are happy to be alone. They do not feel loneliness, but bliss in solitude.
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TP		#24 Posted : 01 August 2009 04:37:43(UTC)
Rank: Advanced Member Groups: Registered Joined: 31/07/2009(UTC) Posts: 317 Location: Milwaukee		bikz wrote: TP wrote: Okay, so they are alone. Doesn't mean they are happy or they are sad for that matter. Just means they are alone. .... and being alone doesn't make this person a loner, it just makes them alone. If the hypothetical person whom we discuss here is a loner, it means that they are happy to be alone. They do not feel loneliness, but bliss in solitude. Shut up! I'm only 13!
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stephaniewazhere		#25 Posted : 01 August 2009 04:38:35(UTC)
Rank: Advanced Member Groups: Registered Joined: 21/02/2009(UTC) Posts: 18,252 Thanks: 6248 times Was thanked: 7557 time(s) in 3439 post(s)		Oh UK people. In America a loner is a person who likes to be alone (they avoid people). Like a clique in High School. Some people are called loners because they are always alone. I think thats what he was referring to.
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TP		#26 Posted : 01 August 2009 04:39:45(UTC)
Rank: Advanced Member Groups: Registered Joined: 31/07/2009(UTC) Posts: 317 Location: Milwaukee		stephaniewazhere wrote: Oh UK people. In America a loner is a person who likes to be alone (they avoid people). Like a clique in High School. Some people are called loners because they are always alone. I think thats what he was referring to. Yeah......lol actually that is what I'm say
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stephaniewazhere		#27 Posted : 01 August 2009 04:40:22(UTC)
Rank: Advanced Member Groups: Registered Joined: 21/02/2009(UTC) Posts: 18,252 Thanks: 6248 times Was thanked: 7557 time(s) in 3439 post(s)		TP wrote: stephaniewazhere wrote: Oh UK people. In America a loner is a person who likes to be alone (they avoid people). Like a clique in High School. Some people are called loners because they are always alone. I think thats what he was referring to. Yeah......lol actually that is what I'm say Yay!!!!
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TP		#28 Posted : 01 August 2009 04:41:55(UTC)
Rank: Advanced Member Groups: Registered Joined: 31/07/2009(UTC) Posts: 317 Location: Milwaukee		stephaniewazhere wrote: TP wrote: stephaniewazhere wrote: Oh UK people. In America a loner is a person who likes to be alone (they avoid people). Like a clique in High School. Some people are called loners because they are always alone. I think thats what he was referring to. Yeah......lol actually that is what I'm say Yay!!!! I'm so happy I'll whistle to a tune.
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old.gregg		#29 Posted : 01 August 2009 04:46:05(UTC)
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TP		#30 Posted : 01 August 2009 04:48:37(UTC)
Rank: Advanced Member Groups: Registered Joined: 31/07/2009(UTC) Posts: 317 Location: Milwaukee		old.gregg wrote: ^ This is why I don't like smileys. If you post nothing beneficial, just smileys in Serious Debate, I will replace your signature with this lil' guy - - you have been warned. Ah, but mister moderator, I was celebrating the fact that I reached someone with my ideals. Isn't that worth putting up smileys? just askin'.
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old.gregg		#31 Posted : 01 August 2009 04:49:16(UTC)
Rank: Advanced Member Groups: Moderators, Registered Joined: 11/02/2009(UTC) Posts: 2,308 Thanks: 3 times Was thanked: 14 time(s) in 6 post(s)		TP wrote: old.gregg wrote: ^ This is why I don't like smileys. If you post nothing beneficial, just smileys in Serious Debate, I will replace your signature with this lil' guy - - you have been warned. Ah, but mister moderator, I was celebrating the fact that I reached someone with my ideals. Isn't that worth putting up smileys? just askin'. I'd probably of jumped on the fact you're not posting in Serious Debate first?
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TP		#32 Posted : 01 August 2009 04:50:37(UTC)
Rank: Advanced Member Groups: Registered Joined: 31/07/2009(UTC) Posts: 317 Location: Milwaukee		old.gregg wrote: TP wrote: old.gregg wrote: ^ This is why I don't like smileys. If you post nothing beneficial, just smileys in Serious Debate, I will replace your signature with this lil' guy - - you have been warned. Ah, but mister moderator, I was celebrating the fact that I reached someone with my ideals. Isn't that worth putting up smileys? just askin'. I'd probably of jumped on the fact you're not posting in Serious Debate first? lol, this whole thread has become a serious conversation. It's the only thread active in the last two hours.
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Aj		#33 Posted : 01 August 2009 05:22:23(UTC)
Rank: Advanced Member Groups: Registered Joined: 16/02/2009(UTC) Posts: 2,543 Location: Jamaica Thanks: 27 times Was thanked: 34 time(s) in 28 post(s)		stephaniewazhere wrote: I see it this way, if your a loner, enjoy being it. Good things come from it. 1) you know more about yourself 2.) You get stay away from peer pressure and stay out of trouble 3.) If your a writer, this would be the best thing. 4.) You are what you are, and no one but yourself can change that. :) Just make sure you socialize with people and get exercise once in a while. Not sure about the writer thing, if you write stories which involve in depth characters it helps to have someone to base it around - I write stories :)
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stephaniewazhere		#34 Posted : 01 August 2009 05:32:27(UTC)
Rank: Advanced Member Groups: Registered Joined: 21/02/2009(UTC) Posts: 18,252 Thanks: 6248 times Was thanked: 7557 time(s) in 3439 post(s)		Aj wrote: stephaniewazhere wrote: I see it this way, if your a loner, enjoy being it. Good things come from it. 1) you know more about yourself 2.) You get stay away from peer pressure and stay out of trouble 3.) If your a writer, this would be the best thing. 4.) You are what you are, and no one but yourself can change that. :) Just make sure you socialize with people and get exercise once in a while. Not sure about the writer thing, if you write stories which involve in depth characters it helps to have someone to base it around - I write stories :) Not really people have something called imagination, yo don't need experience to write something good.
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TP		#35 Posted : 01 August 2009 05:50:17(UTC)
Rank: Advanced Member Groups: Registered Joined: 31/07/2009(UTC) Posts: 317 Location: Milwaukee		stephaniewazhere wrote: Aj wrote: stephaniewazhere wrote: I see it this way, if your a loner, enjoy being it. Good things come from it. 1) you know more about yourself 2.) You get stay away from peer pressure and stay out of trouble 3.) If your a writer, this would be the best thing. 4.) You are what you are, and no one but yourself can change that. :) Just make sure you socialize with people and get exercise once in a while. Not sure about the writer thing, if you write stories which involve in depth characters it helps to have someone to base it around - I write stories :) Not really people have something called imagination, yo don't need experience to write something good. It sure does help.
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xNightsidex		#36 Posted : 01 August 2009 05:52:26(UTC)
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C4AJoh		#37 Posted : 01 August 2009 06:04:56(UTC)
Rank: Advanced Member Groups: Moderators, Registered Joined: 18/05/2009(UTC) Posts: 13,483 Thanks: 4282 times Was thanked: 8766 time(s) in 2763 post(s)		bikz wrote: TP wrote: Okay, so they are alone. Doesn't mean they are happy or they are sad for that matter. Just means they are alone. .... and being alone doesn't make this person a loner, it just makes them alone. If the hypothetical person whom we discuss here is a loner, it means that they are happy to be alone. They do not feel loneliness, but bliss in solitude. I think you have made the point i was looking for when i posted this topic, "They do not feel lonliness" that's exactly how i feel
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TP		#38 Posted : 01 August 2009 06:10:16(UTC)
Rank: Advanced Member Groups: Registered Joined: 31/07/2009(UTC) Posts: 317 Location: Milwaukee		The term "Feeling loneliness" has been pushed around so many times that whenever someone says it, they mean that they feeling sad for being lonely.
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xNightsidex		#39 Posted : 01 August 2009 06:11:53(UTC)
Rank: Advanced Member Groups: Moderators, Registered Joined: 11/02/2009(UTC) Posts: 2,519 Location: London Thanks: 4 times Was thanked: 20 time(s) in 20 post(s)		Very true actually. 60% of the time I'm a social loner because I prefer getting things done myself, I'll sometimes go out on my own if I need to do something and don't really need my friends helping me, or they just haven't the time to join me. I'm quite content though.
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TP		#40 Posted : 01 August 2009 06:13:02(UTC)
Rank: Advanced Member Groups: Registered Joined: 31/07/2009(UTC) Posts: 317 Location: Milwaukee		xNightsidex wrote: Very true actually. 60% of the time I'm a social loner because I prefer getting things done myself, I'll sometimes go out on my own if I need to do something and don't really need my friends helping me, or they just haven't the time to join me. I'm quite content though. 2nd thing in the last 5 minutes we agreed on something. lol
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