but when i say "friend", i mean metaphorically speaking. of course you won't be hanging out with your dad and go and smoke some weed with him. i mean you of course have to be respectful to them, but also have a good relationship so you won't need to find what your parents can't give you emotionally and psychologically in other places, like i said before. i have respect for my parents, but i can't talk to them like they were my friends, with the add that they lived a lot more than me and know much about a lot of things that i don't. so sometimes is better ask for my parents' word that a friend's word.

While I don't want to belittle what you've done, babysitting is entirely different from the actual parenting.

Then your using the wrong term, you should be using the term "Parent". The whole you talk to your parents like they are your friends is crap. If you had sex with someone your willing to be more detailed with your friend than your parent (if you do tell them that stuff, which by the way Is weird).

firstly, i don't usually give details of my sexual life because is something between me and my girlfriend. but, yes, my parents know it because i told them. so what? do you have a problem with it? i don't think it's weird at all. i think is actually better than be unable to tell your parents about it. telling them gets my parents talking me about their experiences and teaching me on what i have to do or what i don't have to do.
and don't say again that what i say is a "lie" or "crap", because it offends me, and i can offend you with harder stuff. please apologise to me.

Ok I'm not going to argue with him. But someone needs to tell him to stop because we are debating and Troy is taking this personal.

I said it would be weird to tell your parents detail by detail what you did sexually.

and can someone please handle troy he is ruining the fun of debating.

Listen tittle boy, I had to change diapers, Cook meals, and wash clothes and make sure Genesis and Jennifer followed the rules. That's pretty much being like a parent ok! There were a lot of years where my mom worked two jobs one at the hotel and one at Ross (clothing store) so she can at least let us have a simple Christmas.
It was hard and I had to suck it up and deal with it. I hated it but now I thank my mom because now I can understand single mothers more.

well, yes, i talk with my parents like they are my friends. i don't give a fuck if your mother died or your father left you alone, but don't go telling other people how they have to be with their parents.
and there's no fun in this debate because it has to be serious. if you're taking things with fun, you're pretty wrong.

Wow I wonder how that must be.... I'm not telling you personally I'm saying in general, we are D-E-B-A-T-I-N-G, the reason I used my personal experiences was to prove my point that's all. **Face palms** WTF, I meant fun as in debating not the actual subject. Your so misunderstanding what I'm saying and now I'm afraid to continue debating this with you because you are now taking this personally.