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User is suspended until 16/05/4760 03:38:29(UTC) stephaniewazhere  
#4681 Posted : 26 July 2010 10:05:59(UTC)
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What if she gets slapped for sucking up?
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#4682 Posted : 26 July 2010 10:37:45(UTC)
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Man Rest in Piece to the 19 people that were trampled at the Love Parade. That really sucks. I think 100 were injured as well. People just can't fucking have a good time these days.

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#4683 Posted : 26 July 2010 11:07:45(UTC)
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Raphaela wrote:
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13 year old boy friend troubles?


OMG, how did you know?! Psychic...
We went out yesterday and drank a couple of beers each. His mother found out and now he can't get out of the house for fuck knows how long.
And I'm sure she now thinks I'm trying to take her son to the dark side.
Fuuuuck :(


Dark side? Did you do that on purpose or is the double Star wars thing just a weird coincidence?
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#4684 Posted : 26 July 2010 11:50:30(UTC)
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The dark side was indeed on purpose, but not the other. I have never watched Star Wars, I didn't know my previous statement was in it haha.
To update the case, his mother said he's allowed to get out of the house, as long as it isn't with me.
Fuuuuuck [2].
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#4685 Posted : 26 July 2010 12:20:38(UTC)
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Raphaela wrote:
Synxhard wrote:
13 year old boy friend troubles?


OMG, how did you know?! Psychic...
We went out yesterday and drank a couple of beers each. His mother found out and now he can't get out of the house for fuck knows how long.
And I'm sure she now thinks I'm trying to take her son to the dark side.
Fuuuuck :(


That's a major bummer...
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#4686 Posted : 26 July 2010 23:07:50(UTC)
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Raphaela wrote:
The dark side was indeed on purpose, but not the other. I have never watched Star Wars, I didn't know my previous statement was in it haha.
To update the case, his mother said he's allowed to get out of the house, as long as it isn't with me.
Fuuuuuck [2].


Its not but Yoda always talks with sentences out of order.

exe, "Tired I am", "Lose, you will." and stuff like that.
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#4687 Posted : 27 July 2010 12:01:14(UTC)
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That MTV True Life: Polyamorous was the most disgusting thing I have ever seen. How the hell can four guys have a sexual relationship and then accept it, live with each other! WTF!
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#4688 Posted : 27 July 2010 12:07:01(UTC)
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I am off to watch WWE Raw....yes, I am very sad, I know
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#4689 Posted : 27 July 2010 12:07:45(UTC)
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Two girls and two guys too, WTF O_o
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#4690 Posted : 27 July 2010 13:59:33(UTC)
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stephaniewazhere wrote:
Two girls and two guys too, WTF O_o

Well, it can be (and has been) argued that we are not neccessarily naturally monogomous beasts, that it is in fact simply something that disgusts us because that is the way society chooses us to see polygamy. After all, plenty of people have affairs and yet still deeply care for their husband/wife at the same time as they are cheating on them with someone else they clearly care for.

Polyamory certainly seems a much more decent way to go about having multiple relationships, there is no lying involved for a start. And traditional polygamy tends to be inherently sexist at patriarchal, ie it's always the males who have many wives and not the other way round, often justified by religious dogma, such as in Islam where the prophet Muhammad had four wives and so all men can (under Sharia law at least) have up to four wives.

I think a ployamorous lifestyle would certainly take some getting used to, you'd have to learn to be a lot less possessive and jealous with loved ones, but I don't really have any problems with it, I take that quintessentially British attitude of "what goes on behind someone elses front door, so long as it hurts nobody, it's not really any of my business".
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#4691 Posted : 27 July 2010 14:29:44(UTC)
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Cheating is a strange one...as much as it tears families and couples apart all over the shop...I personally dont see anything wrong with it. But then again, I dont see anything at all favourable about marriage. Marital affairs may be a different issue altogether
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#4692 Posted : 27 July 2010 15:40:02(UTC)
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forkboy wrote:
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Two girls and two guys too, WTF O_o

Well, it can be (and has been) argued that we are not neccessarily naturally monogomous beasts, that it is in fact simply something that disgusts us because that is the way society chooses us to see polygamy. After all, plenty of people have affairs and yet still deeply care for their husband/wife at the same time as they are cheating on them with someone else they clearly care for.

Polyamory certainly seems a much more decent way to go about having multiple relationships, there is no lying involved for a start. And traditional polygamy tends to be inherently sexist at patriarchal, ie it's always the males who have many wives and not the other way round, often justified by religious dogma, such as in Islam where the prophet Muhammad had four wives and so all men can (under Sharia law at least) have up to four wives.

I think a ployamorous lifestyle would certainly take some getting used to, you'd have to learn to be a lot less possessive and jealous with loved ones, but I don't really have any problems with it, I take that quintessentially British attitude of "what goes on behind someone elses front door, so long as it hurts nobody, it's not really any of my business".


Well that's a good outlook, I just had never heard of it before so I was shocked and sort of disgusted by it at first. Obviously that would be considered a sin under Christianity, but like the bible says I'm no one to judge. I just personally don't see how it is possible for me to have a relationship with more than one person like that.

What I noticed is that the partners who do it, seem unloved. They hug and kiss more passionately as if they had never been kissed or hugged before. It's really sad. However, they seem to be more spiritually connected which actually can work well for the relationship. I'm going to look more into this. Not that I'm going to do it or anything....
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#4693 Posted : 27 July 2010 15:43:07(UTC)
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genocidal king wrote:
Cheating is a strange one...as much as it tears families and couples apart all over the shop...I personally dont see anything wrong with it. But then again, I dont see anything at all favourable about marriage. Marital affairs may be a different issue altogether


I agree as long as they are happy.
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#4694 Posted : 27 July 2010 22:02:26(UTC)
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Cheating is a strange one...as much as it tears families and couples apart all over the shop...I personally dont see anything wrong with it. But then again, I dont see anything at all favourable about marriage. Marital affairs may be a different issue altogether

Well, the problem with cheating is the lying, essentially. The idea of having a relationship with more than one person simultaneously isn't exactly wrong at all, the problem with it is the way that they are usuallly done, with deceit and deception, which causes pain to people you supposedly love.
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#4695 Posted : 27 July 2010 23:12:05(UTC)
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forkboy wrote:
genocidal king wrote:
Cheating is a strange one...as much as it tears families and couples apart all over the shop...I personally dont see anything wrong with it. But then again, I dont see anything at all favourable about marriage. Marital affairs may be a different issue altogether

Well, the problem with cheating is the lying, essentially. The idea of having a relationship with more than one person simultaneously isn't exactly wrong at all, the problem with it is the way that they are usuallly done, with deceit and deception, which causes pain to people you supposedly love.



In my opinion, and I am aware that that is vastly different to the view of the majority, I don't think there is a problem with the lying and the sneaking around. The problem is more the finding out by the other person. And yes it causes upset and stuff, I just dont see the issue really
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#4696 Posted : 27 July 2010 23:13:06(UTC)
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Yes but if people were honest and up front then they'd not get caught.

And oh yeah, you know who else has no problems with lying? That's right man, sociopaths :p
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#4697 Posted : 27 July 2010 23:42:32(UTC)
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forkboy wrote:
Yes but if people were honest and up front then they'd not get caught.

And oh yeah, you know who else has no problems with lying? That's right man, sociopaths :p



Hahaha, nah I think in this case it's more an example of just keeping things from someone else for everyone's good, as opposed to a sociopathic disregard for everyone.

And yeah, the honesty point is fair enough, but I think for a lot of people, the dishonesty is the fun. I'd also point out at this point that I haven't ever cheated on anyone, I just dont really see the big issue with it
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#4698 Posted : 28 July 2010 01:37:49(UTC)
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i see it as a massive thing... especially since i have been cheated on in the past... it hurt me a lot, and i couldn't do that to someone i supposedly love...
the two are incompatable i find... if you have the desire to cheat you don't love the person your with anymore / enough so should probably do something about that before hurting them even more and stringing them along.
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Oh you know, hunting elephants
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#4699 Posted : 28 July 2010 02:38:38(UTC)
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I think I've cheated on/been cheated on in nearly every relationship I've been in. Probably why I don't believe in them as such anymore.
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#4700 Posted : 28 July 2010 23:47:46(UTC)
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stephaniewazhere wrote:
That MTV True Life: Polyamorous was the most disgusting thing I have ever seen. How the hell can four guys have a sexual relationship and then accept it, live with each other! WTF!


BECAUSE THEY ARE SO FUCKING COOL.

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