Ok, this just happened to me about a few minutes ago. This girl that i've been really close friends with now for about 2-3 years is moving away. I really like her, and i could tell that she really liked me, probably more than i liked her. But because of our close friendship, we never quite asked each other out, at least i didn't because i felt it would get all weird and complicated. Plus, i guess we were both a bit unknowing of u each other's exact feelings for each other, thinking that "wut if i ask her out, but she really just wanted to be bff's?" well, now i'm afraid that this'll be all over for our friendship. I live in the northern suburbs of a city called Milwaukee. She's moving to a town called Oshkosh, which is about an hour north from here, which isn't bad. But for being a freshman with no driver's license, it's gonna be luck if i'll ever be able to see her again. yeah, i can get a license next year, but will we still be as close as we are now? will i want to drive to her? and the same for her? She wrote this txt to me "Max im moving to oshkosh and i love u ur such a cool friend ill miss u sooo much goodbye" (btw, my name is Max) I asked her when and she wrote "Today or tomaro. Ive know this for a while but i thought itd happen ltr. srry :'("
so, is my life over? i very much think it is. Oh, sure. i could tell my feelings now, but would it really matter now that we're apart?

yeah ik for sure i'll see her again, but i don't think we'll ever be friends anymore. Sure, long time friends perhaps at best, but not really best friends anymore.

I received a text from her where she said that she liked me and wondered if i ever felt the same. I said that i had some feelings of beyond friendship but never wanted to express them for the sake of convoluting our lives amongst our friends.

No, your life is not over.

Oh dear, an hour ? A fucking hour? Jesus, you can't like her that much if your not willing to go even that distance ? I don't know what the public transports like in the USA, but hell there must be a train or a bus or something ?

I don't have a driver's license yet. I gotta wait at least a year before i can start going to driving school. That's my problem. When I finally get a license, would i still have the same strong feelings for her? Besides, the train station in my city is across town and it doesn't quite go through her city.

Well he's from the US and not from wherever the hell you come from.

Edited by user 12 September 2010 22:57:41(UTC)  | Reason: Not specified

Milwaukee is in the US, not too far away from Chicago, Green Bay, & Madison, and a few hours from the Twin Cities, so it's in the middle of large metro areas, it's also a big one too. She lives in a city called Oshkosh, which is about an hour and a half away (lookd it up on google earth). We are planning to meet at a city called Sheboygan on thanksgiving, but nothing is official yet. Honestly, I think i overreacted, and once i realized i overreacted, i turned a little stubborn lol. I'll be fine, but it's still gonna be hard. Plus, after some long texts, I realized that i don't really love her enuf to be a lover, but rather as a great friend. I guess it's just her absence that opened up some strange feelings.