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User is suspended until 16/05/4760 03:38:29(UTC) stephaniewazhere  
#1 Posted : 04 July 2009 00:51:29(UTC)
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Warning: Please don't start an argument on this thread,
One- Because A Mod will lock it
Two- this thread is not to talk about negative things just the positive, if we all don't get over this crap it will never get better.

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I think instead of whining on how terrible the fourms look or are, I think we should all look ahead and forget everything. Start fresh and brand new. I don't mean in your artists/bands, threads. I mean mentally. But before you start calling out names, we (including myself) are not perfect. There is always going to be a disagreement. I relalize that not everyone is going to like everyone on this forum. If you don't like soemone, don't look at their threads, don't even write in roleplay, because believe it or not it will cause an argument. If an argument breaks out instead of pointing fingers like we all do, we should just be "let all stop this now" and let things calm down, and stop and if a person keep going let them. A mod will handle that person. Otherrwise your thread which I'm pretty sure you worked hard for will be locked.

Now don't be like oh coming from you, should we listen to you?
Yes, you should. I am a member in this forum. I have an opinion and I belive by doing this , this crap would stop.

People are entitled to their own opinions, but an opinon is an opinion not a fact.

I think it would be great to have a thread were only mods can post, a "Warning Thread" to warn when an arument needs to stop. Or warn people.

I think threads entitled like (I'm going to use myself as an example, I'm not mocking anyone)

Steph is acting like an ass (Lets discuss this)
Stephanie is going all Koo-koo in the head.

I'm starting to think that Carl may be punishing us for being like this to his forum which he created. I mean we don'k know when he is looking. (That was jus a thought, I'm not saying that is true)

Let move the hell on. And start all over mentally.

Once again please don't argue, go knock your asses out through pm, otherwise you just want attention.

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#2 Posted : 04 July 2009 01:13:18(UTC)
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You're right in that we do need to get over this. We WILL get over this. But you can't expect a miracle straight away - anger is a human emotion, and we're all only human. People will get angry at certain things, and not everyone will control that emotion in the right way.

The forum does need plastering up, yes. But don't expect everything to go right straight off.
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#3 Posted : 04 July 2009 01:14:54(UTC)
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Mouschi wrote:
You're right in that we do need to get over this. We WILL get over this. But you can't expect a miracle straight away - anger is a human emotion, and we're all only human. People will get angry at certain things, and not everyone will control that emotion in the right way.

The forum does need plastering up, yes. But don't expect everything to go right straight off.


From this forum, I don't expect it soon. But I do expect it. But the only way for it to get better is by what the first post says otherwise it will go back to the same way everytime.
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#4 Posted : 04 July 2009 01:17:08(UTC)
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Mod thread idea is technically in existence, just normal members can't see it. We have a Moderator subforum for discussion of such things you mentioned and the like.

but amen to all that.
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#5 Posted : 04 July 2009 01:19:34(UTC)
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xNightsidex wrote:
Mod thread idea is technically in existence, just normal members can't see it. We have a Moderator subforum for discussion of such things you mentioned and the like.

but amen to all that.


Amen.


To Bikz- Trust me I know how anger and emotion is, but imagine, It takes a lot for me myself to get ove it as well, but atleats I'm putting my foot down to stop it, if everyone did that, it will all be over. but take your time. Say what you have to say, but without arguments.
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#6 Posted : 04 July 2009 04:29:37(UTC)
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The thing is drawing the line as to where it becomes an argument. At the end of the day, a forum is for sharing your opinions and express your own personality, and as we all know, everyone here does not share the same opinions on most things. That's what makes this forum an interesting place to be.

The way forward is not becoming a totally bland forum, where everyone just goes along with what other people say, but to discuss our differences in a mature (and let's face it, less bitchy :P) way. And that's not to say we have the whole forum as a debate, the main reason for being here is to enjoy it - fun, less engaging threads included. If everyone sticks more or less to the guidelines that have been set up as the forum rules, we can have an interesting and active forum.
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#7 Posted : 04 July 2009 04:56:33(UTC)
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old.gregg wrote:
The thing is drawing the line as to where it becomes an argument. At the end of the day, a forum is for sharing your opinions and express your own personality, and as we all know, everyone here does not share the same opinions on most things. That's what makes this forum an interesting place to be.

The way forward is not becoming a totally bland forum, where everyone just goes along with what other people say, but to discuss our differences in a mature (and let's face it, less bitchy :P) way. And that's not to say we have the whole forum as a debate, the main reason for being here is to enjoy it - fun, less engaging threads included. If everyone sticks more or less to the guidelines that have been set up as the forum rules, we can have an interesting and active forum.


I'm not saying we can't argue. I'm saying when things get out of hand, Because what you may find mature I may find immature (same vise versa) when having argument. It's not about being mature. It's about the people who are not involved, that try to stop the arguments. Instead pointing out the person you think is wrong (which happens most of the time, not always but most of the time) just say stop the argument in one post, and like I said in the first post, if they keep arguing, let them, mods will handle them. Otherwise the forums become a battlefield. and at the end of the battle no side has won and thats what makes people moody and what you think of bitchy.

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#8 Posted : 04 July 2009 05:57:30(UTC)
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Well, hasn't the forum turned into quite the pity party...
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#9 Posted : 04 July 2009 06:05:06(UTC)
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old.gregg wrote:
Well, hasn't the forum turned into quite the pity party...


Well, Im trying to help, personally I don't feel pity for anyone, the one I feel pity is for the forums itself and the creator who is Carl.

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#10 Posted : 04 July 2009 07:48:51(UTC)
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#11 Posted : 04 July 2009 07:55:59(UTC)
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#12 Posted : 04 July 2009 08:49:50(UTC)
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#13 Posted : 04 July 2009 09:04:30(UTC)
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#14 Posted : 04 July 2009 11:13:03(UTC)
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Lets all hug!

YAYZA! :D


Yay, see it took a god damn thread to do this. I'm happy now!! :) :) :) :) :) Not saying its going to be perfect, but it is going to get better.
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#15 Posted : 04 July 2009 11:16:19(UTC)
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What's everyone else do in the real world?


Sell pot and jerk off

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#16 Posted : 04 July 2009 11:20:55(UTC)
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#17 Posted : 04 July 2009 11:24:46(UTC)
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We're on our way back up. SO pleased! (: *hugs everyone - hope my chest doesn't squash you, haha*
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#18 Posted : 04 July 2009 11:30:58(UTC)
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We're on our way back up. SO pleased! (: *hugs everyone - hope my chest doesn't squash you, haha*


OMG, don't squish me please.
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#19 Posted : 04 July 2009 11:45:16(UTC)
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#20 Posted : 04 July 2009 12:51:23(UTC)
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