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#21 Posted : 21 November 2009 08:18:29(UTC)
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If they react bad, then they aren't very good Christians in the first place. Its kind of like racism, "All men created equal" and Christians still hate/d black people. If they cant respect you for you decision, then screw them...I know its not that easy, but in the long run, you would benefit from telling them, it will be like a 1000 pound weight off of your shoulder. Maybe...just maybe, that's why your aren't sleeping well? The brain tends to work in that way, and its very possible that your own nervousness of your parents reaction, is eating you up and you don't even know it.


It goes deeper than that. I guess you have to be gay to know what I am talking about.

Also I forgot to mention the many reasons I don't have a boyfriend. One reason is because the last boyfriend I had wanted to meet my parents and talk to them and he almost did over the phone and told them I was gay. I snatched the phone away otherwise he would of told them. I'm afraid of that now. See my if my mom found out, she wouldn't hate me but she probably would tell me to go to church and get some help. To get the demon I have inside out of me. She would never accept it as something that I am but something that I have. I don't know how to explain it.


Its your own problem, and you should do it on your own time, but I think while it may bring trouble in your relationship with your parents, you yourself would benefit from it, and you are all that matters.
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#22 Posted : 21 November 2009 08:33:05(UTC)
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Maybe I should just stick to dating women, it will be a whole lot easier for me.
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#23 Posted : 21 November 2009 09:41:22(UTC)
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You should only do that if you want to, and to be honest, your willingness to do that says one of two things.

1. Your not really gay.
2. Your probably bi
3. Your parents must be really big as* holes
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#24 Posted : 21 November 2009 09:46:48(UTC)
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You should only do that if you want to, and to be honest, your willingness to do that says one of two things.

1. Your not really gay.
2. Your probably bi
3. Your parents must be really big as* holes


1. I am gay.
2. I am Bi
3. My mom loves me and as a Christian she just want the best for me
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#25 Posted : 21 November 2009 09:50:43(UTC)
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I'm bi, but I sorta found this interesting, so I should elaborate.

How did you "Came out of the closet"
I came out to my friends in my freshman year. About 3 months after that, I came out to my parents. My mom was supportive, and my dad flipped out a little, but got over it after a few hours and is (currently) supportive.

How do you deal with having a boyfriend or girlfriend kiss you in public? If you are in school, how do you deal with the homophobic?
When Nic and I go on dates, we get stares from old women and such when we kiss. I don't care much, I think they're jealous. :)
At school, Ignoring them seems to always work. And if it doesn't, they get 45 minutes of bitching from yours truly.

If you are feminine, how do you deal with your emotions? How do you say I rather talk about fashion then play basketball? How doe it feel being gay and not growing up with a father or mother? How does it feel having your friends judging you after they find out you're gay?

I'm no feminine, but I do hate sports and would rather talk about music. My friends didn't care, infact they were very supportive.
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#26 Posted : 21 November 2009 11:54:17(UTC)
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One of the reasons I wont be showing you guys my He wolf video is because of this. The negativity will spread in and the way you will look at me will change. The video is too sexual for you to see. So I decided to erase all video I recorded.
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#27 Posted : 21 November 2009 13:05:38(UTC)
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Ok so after giving it much thought I'm going to call my mom soon and "come out" but before I do I need some advice. I'm hella nervous right now I'm literally shaking. What should I say? I mean I'm catching a flight tomorrow to see her, should I say it to her, face to face. Or over the phone. I don't know I am so confused at the moment. I'm so fucking scared.
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#28 Posted : 21 November 2009 13:12:10(UTC)
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stephaniewazhere wrote:
Ok so after giving it much thought I'm going to call my mom soon and "come out" but before I do I need some advice. I'm hella nervous right now I'm literally shaking. What should I say? I mean I'm catching a flight tomorrow to see her, should I say it to her, face to face. Or over the phone. I don't know I am so confused at the moment. I'm so fucking scared.


just be like, "mom, i'm gay, you can either respect it or not." or something
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#29 Posted : 21 November 2009 13:12:33(UTC)
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"Mom, I have something to tell you. I'm gay."

but in Spanish.
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#30 Posted : 21 November 2009 13:13:29(UTC)
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stephaniewazhere wrote:
Ok so after giving it much thought I'm going to call my mom soon and "come out" but before I do I need some advice. I'm hella nervous right now I'm literally shaking. What should I say? I mean I'm catching a flight tomorrow to see her, should I say it to her, face to face. Or over the phone. I don't know I am so confused at the moment. I'm so fucking scared.

Think of what her reaction will be. If she'll freak out, tell her slowly, and if she freaks out, try you absolute HARDEST to make her understand.
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#31 Posted : 21 November 2009 13:15:09(UTC)
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tension101 wrote:
stephaniewazhere wrote:
Ok so after giving it much thought I'm going to call my mom soon and "come out" but before I do I need some advice. I'm hella nervous right now I'm literally shaking. What should I say? I mean I'm catching a flight tomorrow to see her, should I say it to her, face to face. Or over the phone. I don't know I am so confused at the moment. I'm so fucking scared.

Think of what her reaction will be. If she'll freak out, tell her slowly, and if she freaks out, try you absolute HARDEST to make her understand.


My god my heart is beating so fucking hard right now. Ok I'm going to call her right now and get this over with. If I don't say anything about this, it's because it went bad. f not I am so going to celebrate. Oh my god I can't believe I'm about to do this.
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#32 Posted : 21 November 2009 13:15:12(UTC)
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or just don't tell her yet. Make her kinda guess by doing somethings she'll think is "gay", so when you tell her, it won't freak her out as much

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#33 Posted : 21 November 2009 13:33:13(UTC)
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AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHDancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing

OMG!!! I did it!!! I am so happy, ok so I’m so excited I can’t even think straight (Lol the irony) Ok so there lots of stuttering at the beginning and I told her “ma, yo soy un homosexual” (I am gay) and she was like “Que??” (what), Que tu ere un que? (That you are a what?) I had to repeat it like 6 times, I swear and she finally got what I was trying to tell her and she then said “Ahi dios mio, como si yo no supiera” Can you believe she fucking said that she already knew, this is so like the movies. She told me she didn't want to say anything because she didn't if she was sure and she didn't want to offend me and that she was scare of it. She says that she knows is the wrong thing in church but that I am her son ans that she still loves me. She is going to talk to me when I see her tomorrow. I am so happy because it didn't go as bad as I thought it would go. I AM SO HAPPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!

I am going to be calling many people tonight!!!
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#34 Posted : 21 November 2009 13:35:38(UTC)
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AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHDancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing

OMG!!! I did it!!! I am so happy, ok so I’m so excited I can’t even think straight (Lol the irony) Ok so there lots of stuttering at the beginning and I told her “ma, yo soy un homosexual” (I am gay) and she was like “Que??” (what), Que tu ere un que? (That you are a what?) I had to repeat it like 6 times, I swear and she finally got what I was trying to tell her and she then said “Ahi dios mio, como si yo no supiera” Can you believe she fucking said that she already knew, this is so like the movies. She told me she didn't want to say anything because she didn't if she was sure and she didn't want to offend me and that she was scare of it. She says that she knows is the wrong thing in church but that I am her son ans that she still loves me. She is going to talk to me when I see her tomorrow. I am so happy because it didn't go as bad as I thought it would go. I AM SO HAPPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!

I am going to be calling many people tonight!!!


well congrats!!! fuck my idea then
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#35 Posted : 21 November 2009 13:41:57(UTC)
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AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHDancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing

OMG!!! I did it!!! I am so happy, ok so I’m so excited I can’t even think straight (Lol the irony) Ok so there lots of stuttering at the beginning and I told her “ma, yo soy un homosexual” (I am gay) and she was like “Que??” (what), Que tu ere un que? (That you are a what?) I had to repeat it like 6 times, I swear and she finally got what I was trying to tell her and she then said “Ahi dios mio, como si yo no supiera” Can you believe she fucking said that she already knew, this is so like the movies. She told me she didn't want to say anything because she didn't if she was sure and she didn't want to offend me and that she was scare of it. She says that she knows is the wrong thing in church but that I am her son ans that she still loves me. She is going to talk to me when I see her tomorrow. I am so happy because it didn't go as bad as I thought it would go. I AM SO HAPPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!

I am going to be calling many people tonight!!!


I'll give you my # and you can call me. :D
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#36 Posted : 21 November 2009 13:43:35(UTC)
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tension101 wrote:
stephaniewazhere wrote:
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHDancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing

OMG!!! I did it!!! I am so happy, ok so I’m so excited I can’t even think straight (Lol the irony) Ok so there lots of stuttering at the beginning and I told her “ma, yo soy un homosexual” (I am gay) and she was like “Que??” (what), Que tu ere un que? (That you are a what?) I had to repeat it like 6 times, I swear and she finally got what I was trying to tell her and she then said “Ahi dios mio, como si yo no supiera” Can you believe she fucking said that she already knew, this is so like the movies. She told me she didn't want to say anything because she didn't if she was sure and she didn't want to offend me and that she was scare of it. She says that she knows is the wrong thing in church but that I am her son ans that she still loves me. She is going to talk to me when I see her tomorrow. I am so happy because it didn't go as bad as I thought it would go. I AM SO HAPPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!

I am going to be calling many people tonight!!!


I'll give you my # and you can call me. :D


Lol, you are hilarious. Seriously I am so happy right now!!!
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#37 Posted : 21 November 2009 13:45:54(UTC)
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It went quick too. She wasn't as surprise as I thought she would be. All this time lol!
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#38 Posted : 21 November 2009 13:47:02(UTC)
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stephaniewazhere wrote:
tension101 wrote:
stephaniewazhere wrote:
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHDancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing Dancing

OMG!!! I did it!!! I am so happy, ok so I’m so excited I can’t even think straight (Lol the irony) Ok so there lots of stuttering at the beginning and I told her “ma, yo soy un homosexual” (I am gay) and she was like “Que??” (what), Que tu ere un que? (That you are a what?) I had to repeat it like 6 times, I swear and she finally got what I was trying to tell her and she then said “Ahi dios mio, como si yo no supiera” Can you believe she fucking said that she already knew, this is so like the movies. She told me she didn't want to say anything because she didn't if she was sure and she didn't want to offend me and that she was scare of it. She says that she knows is the wrong thing in church but that I am her son ans that she still loves me. She is going to talk to me when I see her tomorrow. I am so happy because it didn't go as bad as I thought it would go. I AM SO HAPPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!

I am going to be calling many people tonight!!!


I'll give you my # and you can call me. :D


Lol, you are hilarious. Seriously I am so happy right now!!!


I think you've established that. lol xD
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#39 Posted : 21 November 2009 14:00:36(UTC)
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This reminded me of my friend.
His parents once began saying that it wouldn't matter that he was gay, they'd still love him, etc.
He isn't gay.
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#40 Posted : 21 November 2009 14:18:56(UTC)
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I have a feeling my me and my mom are going to have a long talk, this sin;t over, I just got finished talking with my sister.
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