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stephaniewazhere wrote:asdf wrote:If they react bad, then they aren't very good Christians in the first place. Its kind of like racism, "All men created equal" and Christians still hate/d black people. If they cant respect you for you decision, then screw them...I know its not that easy, but in the long run, you would benefit from telling them, it will be like a 1000 pound weight off of your shoulder. Maybe...just maybe, that's why your aren't sleeping well? The brain tends to work in that way, and its very possible that your own nervousness of your parents reaction, is eating you up and you don't even know it. It goes deeper than that. I guess you have to be gay to know what I am talking about. Also I forgot to mention the many reasons I don't have a boyfriend. One reason is because the last boyfriend I had wanted to meet my parents and talk to them and he almost did over the phone and told them I was gay. I snatched the phone away otherwise he would of told them. I'm afraid of that now. See my if my mom found out, she wouldn't hate me but she probably would tell me to go to church and get some help. To get the demon I have inside out of me. She would never accept it as something that I am but something that I have. I don't know how to explain it. Its your own problem, and you should do it on your own time, but I think while it may bring trouble in your relationship with your parents, you yourself would benefit from it, and you are all that matters. |
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Maybe I should just stick to dating women, it will be a whole lot easier for me.
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You should only do that if you want to, and to be honest, your willingness to do that says one of two things.
1. Your not really gay. 2. Your probably bi 3. Your parents must be really big as* holes |
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asdf wrote:You should only do that if you want to, and to be honest, your willingness to do that says one of two things.
1. Your not really gay. 2. Your probably bi 3. Your parents must be really big as* holes 1. I am gay. 2. I am Bi 3. My mom loves me and as a Christian she just want the best for me
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I'm bi, but I sorta found this interesting, so I should elaborate.
How did you "Came out of the closet" I came out to my friends in my freshman year. About 3 months after that, I came out to my parents. My mom was supportive, and my dad flipped out a little, but got over it after a few hours and is (currently) supportive.
How do you deal with having a boyfriend or girlfriend kiss you in public? If you are in school, how do you deal with the homophobic? When Nic and I go on dates, we get stares from old women and such when we kiss. I don't care much, I think they're jealous. :) At school, Ignoring them seems to always work. And if it doesn't, they get 45 minutes of bitching from yours truly.
If you are feminine, how do you deal with your emotions? How do you say I rather talk about fashion then play basketball? How doe it feel being gay and not growing up with a father or mother? How does it feel having your friends judging you after they find out you're gay?
I'm no feminine, but I do hate sports and would rather talk about music. My friends didn't care, infact they were very supportive. |
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One of the reasons I wont be showing you guys my He wolf video is because of this. The negativity will spread in and the way you will look at me will change. The video is too sexual for you to see. So I decided to erase all video I recorded.
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Ok so after giving it much thought I'm going to call my mom soon and "come out" but before I do I need some advice. I'm hella nervous right now I'm literally shaking. What should I say? I mean I'm catching a flight tomorrow to see her, should I say it to her, face to face. Or over the phone. I don't know I am so confused at the moment. I'm so fucking scared.
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stephaniewazhere wrote:Ok so after giving it much thought I'm going to call my mom soon and "come out" but before I do I need some advice. I'm hella nervous right now I'm literally shaking. What should I say? I mean I'm catching a flight tomorrow to see her, should I say it to her, face to face. Or over the phone. I don't know I am so confused at the moment. I'm so fucking scared. just be like, "mom, i'm gay, you can either respect it or not." or something |
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"Mom, I have something to tell you. I'm gay."
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stephaniewazhere wrote:Ok so after giving it much thought I'm going to call my mom soon and "come out" but before I do I need some advice. I'm hella nervous right now I'm literally shaking. What should I say? I mean I'm catching a flight tomorrow to see her, should I say it to her, face to face. Or over the phone. I don't know I am so confused at the moment. I'm so fucking scared. Think of what her reaction will be. If she'll freak out, tell her slowly, and if she freaks out, try you absolute HARDEST to make her understand. |
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tension101 wrote:stephaniewazhere wrote:Ok so after giving it much thought I'm going to call my mom soon and "come out" but before I do I need some advice. I'm hella nervous right now I'm literally shaking. What should I say? I mean I'm catching a flight tomorrow to see her, should I say it to her, face to face. Or over the phone. I don't know I am so confused at the moment. I'm so fucking scared. Think of what her reaction will be. If she'll freak out, tell her slowly, and if she freaks out, try you absolute HARDEST to make her understand. My god my heart is beating so fucking hard right now. Ok I'm going to call her right now and get this over with. If I don't say anything about this, it's because it went bad. f not I am so going to celebrate. Oh my god I can't believe I'm about to do this.
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or just don't tell her yet. Make her kinda guess by doing somethings she'll think is "gay", so when you tell her, it won't freak her out as much Edited by user 21 November 2009 13:19:46(UTC)
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well congrats!!! fuck my idea then |
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I'll give you my # and you can call me. :D |
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tension101 wrote:I'll give you my # and you can call me. :D Lol, you are hilarious. Seriously I am so happy right now!!!
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It went quick too. She wasn't as surprise as I thought she would be. All this time lol!
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stephaniewazhere wrote:tension101 wrote:I'll give you my # and you can call me. :D Lol, you are hilarious. Seriously I am so happy right now!!! I think you've established that. lol xD |
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This reminded me of my friend. His parents once began saying that it wouldn't matter that he was gay, they'd still love him, etc. He isn't gay. |
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I have a feeling my me and my mom are going to have a long talk, this sin;t over, I just got finished talking with my sister.
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